Note: In October 2006, I switched romanlily.com over to a fabulous Blogger-based format. The archives below pre-date that switch. They're loaded with broken links and tricky trapdoors — but they're how I limped along in the days before the software caught up and began to accommodate my total lack of skill in web programming.

July 2006
July 25 - Open space

May 2006
May 16 - Mothers room

April 2006
April 6 - Kindness as medicine

March 2006
March 19 - Orange icing and string

February 2006
February 18 - Dark passages

January 2006
January 4 - My top 6 songs of 2005
January 14 - Sketches

December 2005
December 4 - Black and white and everything in between
December 27 - The judge's chambers

November 2005
November 17 - Housepainter

October 2005
October 10 - Dancing with bruised knees

September 2005
September 15 - High tide
September 23 - Account balance

August 2005
August 11 - Subway music

July 2005
July 7 - Update from the Existential Freakout Triage Center

May 2005
May 17 - Lost crosses
May 30 - Questions

April 2005
April 17 - Botanical Gardens

March 2005
March 8 - Rebeginning

January 2005
January 8 - My Top 7 Songs of 2004
January 27 - Heart trouble

December 2004
December 11 - Disruptive energy

November 2004
November 20 - Nothing to win and nothing left to lose

October 2004
October 11 - Burial
October 28 - Aphrodite ashore

September 2004
September 5 - What They Don't Tell You
September 13 - Shopping Spree
September 29 - Mandatory Evacuation

August 2004
August 15 - Salmon River Stars
August 29 - Muse Building

July 2004
July 5 - Independence Day
July 13 - Reconsidering the Alphabet
July 26 - The Wilderness of No Return

June 2004
June 1 - The Upside-Down World
June 10 - Eating Instructions; The Golden Pen
June 21 - Red Silk
June 28 - Total Eclipse of the Heart

May 2004
May 8 - The Mythic City
May 12 - Love Song to Kathy
May 18 - "...shine the light of words upon it..."

April 2004
April 6 - Growing from Seed
April 11 - Bright Week
April 21 - By the Numbers
April 25 - The $3 Doctor

March 2004
March 3 - The sun in my sky
March 10 - Kerosene, match
March 16 - Four proofs
March 23 - Pretzel sticks
March 29 - Fast foods

February 2004
February 5 - The Coat [Redux]; The quilt of clouds
February 18 - Unpacking
February 24 - The Handwriting of Boys

January 2004
January 9 - Wrapping paper
January 11 - Seven songs that saved my life
January 15 - Forgive me if I go all angst on you here
January 19 - Standing under the stars
January 24 - The Coat

If you're new to this site, and you want to browse a little backstory without having to read everything, start here.


January 15, 2004: Forgive me if I go all angst on you here

This beautiful music calls to me, begs me: let go of that disconnection. Put those mundane worries in their place, and find that path to the deeper life.



June 1, 2003: Calling to Order the Get-Down Congress

My sweet, gentle husband had more moves than a Dr. J on a good night at Madison Square Gardens.


February 22, 2003: Teaching the Blind to See

I found myself hoping that he had a finely-tuned sense of smell, or taste, or mortality, or something — so somehow, somehow, he could take it all in, soak in the purity of the moment.



November 2, 2002: The Last Broadcast

...believe me, friends, there is no romance like hearing "Wicked Game" while you're browsing through the citrus fruits.



Note written on Oct. 30, 2004:
Archives for 2000, 2001, and early 2002 have recently been removed, because, well, they're just so godawful.

Even older archives are available here, but these are frightening. Proceed at your own risk.

2002 archives

2003 archives

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